The Higher Self wants you to accept your life as it is.

My work has led me to understand that we have to learn how to get people to accept the lives that they have choosen for themselves. Most of my work has been in the area of explaining 'cause and effect' and how one should not judge their lives so harshly but rather accept the life that they have and improve it by being yourself and being ok with yourself - no comparisons. I see that most people are trying to manifest wealth to avoid them selves or the life that they should be living. I have found that when we own up to the responsibility of our life content-mission and align with the Higher Self to support it we have the same life but we recieve a lot of help with it.Acceptance is a big one in the universe.

If one is unhappy with an

If one is unhappy with an aspect of their life they are completely capable of changing it. Accepting unhappiness is not a positive thing.

However I agree with you about comparing ourselves with others. Do what is in your heart, that makes you happy, not what seems to make other's happy.